Lockdown dailema. Pls advise us.

Hello and congratulations for the good news and just try to be in the moment and live the same. Situations are there but we can fight with precautions.

Try to form a new routine and in that do keep me time or us time for both of you and try to be open in talking and sharing with each other that will help your husband come out of dilemma and live in present.

So approach online or telephonic for better help and suggestions as history is very important even for a psychology experts.. take care

Good day Friend.  Thank you for sharing your concern in this forum.  It's quite obvious for many of us to feel anxious about future  and feelings insecured when things are not in favorably condition for  professional  or career objectives. Life is always a balance between professional and personal goals.. In fact covid suitation has helped many of us to  understand and improve relationship to new levels and also given us life lesson like, how to  live with minimal needs, lifestyle changes, healthy food & habits and many more. So it's a time to relook at your priorities in life with a new outlook and accept these changes in a positive view. If both of you need a guidance, don't hesitate to take a counseling support and learn the ways to  overcome anxiety about future. Be positive. You both will be alright soon.  Feel free to reach me online for further assistance.

So to begin with, what you are currently experiencing is completely normal. This unprecedented time is taking our mental health to a troll. Lockdown is just a phase. We all will get over with it. Keep all your fears aside and just follow all the precautions and safety measures for every one who is present in your house. Being an expected mother you just have to be a little more careful of your health. And enjoy this journey.

Seek out for professional guidance from a Clinical Psychologist to get rid of all your worries.

Take good care of yourself by following the necessary guidelines laid by WHO.

Stop worring abt present situation of covid 19. Follow the safety measures. Be positive and relaxed. Now this is the great time u need to understand and accept the situation. Family way is a great thing for both of u so be happy and remember abt good things, experiences in ur life.

I understand. Consider a situation when everything seems to be perfect. You will realize that thoughts of anxiety, apprehension and worry will still plague you. Such is the nature of the mind. It is so because, ever since you were born until now, you would have come across situations that are unpredictable, scary, challenging and anxiety provoking. Mind is the faculty that collects data through all the sense organs based on your experiences. From time to time, a piece of data is randomly picked from this and brought to your attention. This is what we call a thought. Hence, in any situation, it is natural that such thoughts will come to you. It is an inherent part of being human. Having said that, I want you to know that you have the power to choose which thought you wish to focus on and act on. Practice being an observer of your thoughts without labeling or judging them and then exercise your power to focus only on those worthy enough to be acted upon. You must be aware of the fact that the thoughts that you harbor and entertain and thereby the emotions that you experience has an impact on your child. Whatever you feed your mind through your sense organs - eyes, ears, nose, mouth and touch(skin) - will be replayed to you as thoughts. Be conscious of this and make sure that you feed noble, positive, inspiring, motivational content to your mind. I want both of you to consciously make sure that you don't deprive yourselves of all the joy that you truly deserve to celebrate now. Pamper yourselves the way you deserve to be pampered. Whenever thoughts of anxiety loom over the horizon remind yourselves of the precious gift you have and turn them into moments of celebration and rejoicing. This will also pass. Take ownership of these precious moments. You are going to do just fine. Take care.

Thankyou for Sharing, I appreciate that you are acknowledging your relationship and you want to do more better by approaching guidance from professionals, what your husband is going through is quite natural due to extra ordinary situation in our country and believe that  he is not the one who is feeling like this there are so many people going through same, understand one thing each and everything we cannot control, we need to understand and do little adjustment and acceptance for betterment. If needed you both can attend some parenting workshops to get your clear ideas for your parenting style.

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