Issue in marriage. And manipulative too.

Hello Friend, Good that you are seeking a help here. I can understand your suitation. From the narration there seems to be understanding and expectations gap between both of you on this topic. .  You are right, we are not educated or tought properly to handle marriage/sexual expectations. Sex is a very key pillar for any long term relationship like marriage and it's about give and take. While there can be a  problem from his side, it's equally important for you also to get assessed about your understanding of this topic. Sometimes, hormonal issues, body heat, PMS etc can cause low sex drive in women. It's a solvable problem with few home remedies, dietary changes and self therapies. It applies to him as well. . Don't hesitate. As I am also an ayurveda wellness counselor, I can clearly see where is the gap is.

Feel free to reach out to me online through Practo for further detailed evaluation and suitable solutions that you can follow practically to overcome both of your problem. Be confident. You both will be alright soon.