Hair removal in genital area. Area?

I'm a pre-op trans-woman (legally Female) and would like to remove hair from genital area (not bikini, but actual privates: around penis, scrotum, pubes,  crack & around the anus) via laser or electrolysis. It will help me manage my dysphoria as well as become ready for gender reassignment surgery. However, with Kerala and tvm the way it is, genital hair removal is all hush hush and because I'm pre-op I'm treated as a male despite being legally Female. I am very shy and uncomfortable about the topic but I keep reaching out to clinics out of need and everyone refuses to address if they'll provide removal in the genital area or not. Some say after surgery, but I need hair removal before surgery so there won't be ingrown hair inside the neo-vagina. I am the one that'll have to endure hours of explicit exposure, not those medical professionals acting like college kids and being bashful. Is there any mature and professional hair removal clinic in tvm that does hair in genital area?