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Going through a bad breakup ( guilty)
I was in a relationship with a guy who kinda convinced me to love him and the was withhim for an Month and broke of after it was on and off for three months and completely lost touch with each other after 2 years we spoke to each other again it was on and off relationship for 6 months and suddenly I planned for an trip with my friends where he was so adamant to come to the trip and so I traveled with him through the train journey and after I was with my friends and we only spent one night together which was preplanned and which I disagreed at first place and somehow I agreed at a later state it was my mistake..I was feeling guilty for not able to go to the next stage I knew this would not happen due to religion issue..now After all this we had many problems..we broke up...Did he use me anywhere or I don't know...he says he loved me more than he loved himself..I feel guilty at the same time I have angry on him to put me in this Suitation. please help me how should I process this or unde
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From what I can tell, you have a long history with your ex-boyfriend and there are many emotions involved. You didn't want to be in a relationship in the first place and he convinced you to get in one anyway and then you guys broke up, which caused a lot of distress. On top of this, things were going on and off for a while, and you couldn't move on. With this trip, he wanted to come and somehow convinced you to have him tag along. You went through with it but are now regretting your decision. Seems like you are having issues drawing boundaries with this individual and you need to work on that. I understand that matters of the heart can be complicated.
I invite you to join a counselling session with me so that we can explore your issues together and help you find the solutions
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Hi. Dont think odds. Take yourself away from this memory. Many things we plan in life and then they don't happen with a positive ending. It may be worsened further than what has happened. If the guy do anything with you relating with those moments laws are there. Take a firm decision for or against
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I think you need to seek a personal support from one of us to get some clarity and to move on in life..
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Ms. Madumitha Selvaraj
Counselling Psychologist
12 yrs exp
Chennai
Thanks for reaching out for help. I understand that you are in a confused mental state right now. Being unclear about how the past should be interpreted comes from lack of closure. Whatever happened, you need to be able to come to terms with it and push ahead with life with positive thoughts.
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Guilt is not going to help you now. You have to start doing meaningful and productive things to stay positive and not be pulled down by what happened. You still have your life ahead of you. Please book an online consultation with me or any counselling psychologist of your choice to have a discussion on this.
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Start your day in the morning by telling yourself that nobody is to blame for the past. It is over and you will only use the learning from it to make yourself better. Do not feel any bit of it is regretful or wasted.
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Hello,
Glad to know that you are seeking help,your account needs further clarification.You seem to be distressed and overwhelmed.A detailed session will help you.
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Consult a clinical psychologist for detailed evaluation and assessment
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