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Emotionally drained
As a mother I don't feel any love towards my kids..I don't pamper them..I don't pay extra attention. I just do there daily chores ..dint pamper them..hug and kissing nothing
...how to help myself
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You might be undergoing some psychological disturbances for sure. It seems to be more like depression.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
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Hi, There are many reasons why you feel this way .
Childhood sadness or depression due to traumatic experiences you went through as a child.
Negative self image and guilt due to neglect from parents.
Not able to really love one self.
Over thinking and having doubt about the genuine love towards kids .
Psychological conditions.
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Consult a psychologist for psychotherapy.Consult a psychiatrist for medications if needed.
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Get help soon as possible.
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Each parent has their own way of showing affection to their kids. It is important to remember that you are a good parent. To feel better consult a psychologist and talk about your parenting method. It is also important for you to feel good about yourself.
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Consult a psychologist
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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You need immediate medical attention. There must be some reason behind your such behaviour. We have to search it and correct it ,before its too late.
Consult any psychologist in your area or you can consult me online for proper psychological guidance.
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Hi, I am sorry you are feeling this way. I am sure this is tough. It looks like you’re having feelings of self doubt around motherhood. There is a felt sense of not being or giving enough as a mother and this can come from the sub conscious comparison we do with other mothers we see and sometimes it could be our own mother we end up comparing ourselves with. First things first, there is no right way to be a mother. What works for one mother and child duo might not work for another and vice versa. It feels like you are feeling pushed to feel a certain feeling of love and affection towards your children. It looks like there might be something in the subconscious mind that might be impacting your feelings here. The feelings could be stored in your system but aren’t able to be expressed because of some trauma related to your own childhood. We will have to create a safe space to work through this and see how we can bring those feeling out. You’re doing fine! Stay
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Book a session with me to work through this. Love and healing ❤️
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Hi,
Emotional numbness towards others could be a sign of unresolved conflict within yourself.
We need to understand since when it is happening and the causes of it, to resolve it from root.
Hypnotherapy and counselling will help you to get over it.
Thank You and Take care.
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you are feeling. Every parent has their own way to be with their children. You might be having doubts whether you are a good mother or not. There might be reason behind it.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible
You can also contact me and I will try to help you towards it. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... It's okay to feel emotionally drained at times and not being able to do beyond the basic as a mother or as a wife. We are human beings and not robots. Our performance in all spheres of life varies from time to time. What you can do now is to focus on your own self a little bit and try to find out what exactly is that is draining you from within. Is it too many expectations of different roles and responsibilities or is it your own expectations from yourself as a mother, wife, women, that is troubling you more? Try to find out the reasons and start working on resolving those issues.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling is required.
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Ms. Neelam
Counselling Psychologist
14 yrs exp
Bangalore
I would need to know more.
How do you feel about the fact?
Are you comfortable with it or does it bother you?
If you are performing all your duties as a parent, but are unable to feel the emotions, and that worries or bothers you in any way, then we need to discuss further.
I would like to know more about how was your childhood and your experience of having the children.
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If you would like to understand your reactions and find solutions, i would suggest a series of sessions with cbt.
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Take care of yourself, you will need a professional consult please.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
I think it will be useful if you could visit /consult a psychological Counselor to share a d discuss your inner thoughts and emotions to understand yourself better and to overcome this issue..
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