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I am a 31 year old female. I live alone at Surat for work. I have always been very good in academics but never had what I deserved in my career. I blame myself for that. Never was passionate enough for that until recently. Now I have a good job.
I have had many friends in my life. But lately I have shunned everybody out of my life. I don't even talk to people at work. I don't go out ever. I don't feel like doing any of it. But I do miss my old life and my friends.
I have had a few relationships in my past. I am in one right now. I have reached the age where my family wants me to get married. Most of my friends are married too. But the one I love doesn't want marriage. Also, his parents are not very happy with me as I am from a totally different culture and background. He however says that he doesn't want to lose me and is trying to convince his parents. He can't give me his words and has said that I am free and my family can search for a groom for me. I feel so undesirable for that
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You are feeling disappointed that your partner is not able to convince his parents. You are keen on marrying your partner but he is not able to convince his parents. You must be feeling upset and disappointed after he told you that your parents can search for a groom for you. The obstacle here is his parents are not very happy with you because you are from a different culture and background. It seems like you often have thoughts about your personal life and it is preventing you from talking to people and going out. It is good to know that you were very good in academics..To feel better you can consult a psychologist and talk about what you are going through. You are a brave and intelligent person.
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You can contact me for counseling session.
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Consult a psychologist.
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Hi. Be confident, do not force things to happen. Find out many possibilities in life.
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self compassion therapy
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Ms. Komal Singh Parihar
Psychologist
7 yrs exp
Navi Mumbai
Hello dear
I can understand what you might be going through. It might be hard for you to move forward and feel confident about you. You might also be feeling little confused in your life.
Don't worry, consult a good therapist or a psychologist as soon as possible.
You can also contact me and I will try to help you towards your recovery. Let's discuss your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solution.
Take care. Stay safe and strong. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Believing in a person who is not clear about himself might not stand for you and protect you.. So, think before deciding your future life with him..
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For more clarity, do Consult a psychological Counselor..
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... You are facing a difficult life crisis and it is ok to feel overwhelmed at times. Your issues are multifold - Career, Interpersonal, Social, Existential, etc.
You need psychological support to overcome this situation and to make better life choices for yourself.
We cannot control other people's actions. We can't make anyone stay or try harder to stay. But we can develop deeper insights into our own needs and wants and learn to deal with them in more healthy ways.
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Consult a Psychologist.
Interpersonal Relationship Counselling and Personal Guidance is required.
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Cell: nine six seven one three zero three one three four
Website: https://gunjanmaithil.wixsite.com/therapy
App: http://wix.to/fechb08?ref=cl
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