My husband is felt frustrated by his govt. Job at ordnance factory Medak, Telengana. Because we are not economical sound he is not able to leave. He was delaying our marriage since last 2 years with the hope that, after his job transfer everything will be fine. We married in dec 2021, initially for a week everything was okay. Now he is showing his anger by beating himself and talking about suicide and leaving home. I am feeling worried about him and not able to join my old job as a Physiotherapy assistant at Aurangabad, Maharashtra. Every next day, arguments and sadness disturbing me alot. i am orphan and i am not able to ask his family members directly , because they were not happy with our love marriage. He won't listen to me nor he want to shown up to any psychiatrist doctor regarding this behavioral problem. Please, suggest me something that can help me to help him.
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See first YOU HAVE TO FOCUS ON MANAGING YOURSELF.
In this situation you CANT CONTROL HIS THOUGHTS , BEHAVIOUR OR EMOTIONS.
KEEP YOUR COOL , be calm and then think what best SUPPORT YOU CAN GIVE HIM.
IF HE IS NOT WILLING TO GO TO ANY THERAPIST , you can play SUPPORTIVE ROLE FOR HIM .
You are qualified and you can start work again if feasible for your circumstances SO AS TO SHARE THE ECONOMIC BURDEN OF FAMILY.
REMEMBER THERE IS ALWAYS WAY OUT , IN EVERY DIFFICULT SITUATION
If patient is not listening indirect methods can be used.
you can visit nearby psychologist for yourself by taking him with you, seeing your progress he might get convince.
or visit psychiatrist alone .or take online appointments.
hypnotherapy is total drugless treatment, where you feel completely relax and calm within yourself. Total subconscious reprogramming happens there.
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It seems to be performance anxiety at work place which may lead to depression.
It needs to be treated asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medication if required.
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you can contact me through online appointment for further assistance
Hi. Clinical interview and diagnosis are necessary. On behalf him, You can consult for further guidelines
Next Steps
anger management
suicide ideation management plan
Logotherapy
Gratitude Training
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Dear Ma'am
This sounds like a very distressing situation, both for you and your husband. Firstly, it is good to see that you possess such level of awareness as to think about caring towards mental health.
It may be possible that your husband is undergoing mood difficulties leading to poor behavioural outcomes and suicidal ideation.
Though, you may have already tried. It would be best to discuss the need for reaching out to a mental health professional, whenever he is in a lighter mood. You may use examples like: if we have a fever that does not go away on its own, we go to a doctor; just like that, for disrupted mood that keeps going on, we need to consult a Psychologist/Psychiatrist.
Wish you strength!
Next Steps
Please reach out to a Licensed Psychologist or MCI Certified Psychiatrist.
Hi... Is he a uniformed personnel (military)?
If yes, his situation can be caused by a prolonged physical and mental stress caused out of his occupational hazard.
If he is a Civilian professional working in a military establishment, his situation is entirely different.
In both the cases, you can try to meet the establishment head and share your concerns, i. e., husband talking about suicide. The head of establishment is likely to help him out if he finds his situation to be genuine.
You can meet a Psychiatrist alone, if your husband is unwilling. The Psychiatrist will guide you the way forward. There is a different standard operating procedure (sop) for such cases.
Next Steps
Consult a Psychiatrist for assessment and medication.
Consult a Psychologist for Counselling/Psychotherapy.
CBT along with Motivational Counselling and Lifestyle Guidance is required.
Hello dear
I can understand what he might be going through and how you might be feeling. There might be many reasons and factors playing in the current situation. Some you know and some you may not be able to understand.
Don't worry, both of you consult a good therapist or a psychologist for couples counselling.
You can also contact me and I will help you towards your solutions. Let's discuss both of your issues in detail so that you can get towards your solutions.
Take care of yourself and your husband. Everything will be alright. You got this!
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