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Depression after consulting astrologer
I am 28 f,I m unmarried,my parents seeing alliance long time but nothing set..i m independant,educated ,working ...i consulted an astrologer yesterday,she told i ll marry an old man as second wife ...i m broken,was suicidal yesterday..i m afraid what dat astrologer told ll happen...
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I’m truly sorry to hear that you’re feeling this way. It’s understandable that hearing something distressing from an astrologer can be incredibly upsetting. It’s important to remember that astrology is not based on scientific evidence and shouldn’t be taken as a definitive prediction of the future.
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- Clarify what you want in life, including relationships and personal fulfillment.
- Express your feelings and concerns about the situation.
- Emphasize your desire to be involved in decision-making regarding your marriage.
- You can connect with me for professional support to explore and cope with emotions.
- Gain guidance and develop strategies to navigate this challenging time effectively.
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I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to prioritize your mental health. Consider talking to a mental health professional who can provide support and guidance. Astrological predictions don't determine your future, and seeking professional help can offer you tools to navigate challenges and find resilience.
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Thank you for reaching out on Practo.
You seem to be worried and stressed due predictions made by astrologer, however,this could not be only reason and there is more to it.
Astrologer makes predictions based on the knowledge and experience,even they say they are not 100%true.
You are doing well for yourself and at 28 is common these days to get married, however your and your parents concern is completely understandable and respected , however it's not too late or bad.
You need to utilise this time to understand yourself better and what you expect in relationship/marriage.
What is making you suicidal or fear future? Reflect and you will understand better.
You are writer of your own story
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Take an appointment with me for Counseling session to understand better the reason for worry and how you can be at good mental space.
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learn new skills
instead of your parents seeing alliance,you yourself go for date or socialize meet people(definitely be safe).
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Astrologer can't decide your future.
Don't get stressed up.
You need an expert Psychologist who can guide you in terms of your carrier decision making skills.
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Thanks for reaching out. Based on what you have mentioned it seems like you are worried about the future. You are worried about whether you will find the right person or not. You are independent and that is good. You have consulted an astrologer and she has said certain things that is making you feel anxious. A lot of people consult an astrologer for assurance especially if they are worried about finding a partner to marry. There are times when what the astrologer says is different from reality because it is difficult to predict what happens in the future. In your case you can think that what happens in real life cannot be the same as what the astrologer said. While choosing a partner you can think about the kind of person you want. You have control over your life. There is nothing wrong with going to an astrologer. You can consult another astrologer. There are trained astrologers who have a degree in astrology.
You need to attract positive vibes and positive energy to feel calm. Consult a psychologist for counselling sessions. A psychologist will help you feel calm and positive.
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Become aware of how your thoughts are impacting your emotions and behaviors Observe your thoughts. Ask yourself this thought are realistic or not.
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Write Down What You Are Feeling
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Dear, this world is full of wisdom and to whom u r seeking advice is important aspect. I guess he must have also told about kaal dosh, sarp dosh, guru rahu ketu and all obstacles.
Come out and be confident. Mark my words,
If u want to fly like an EAGLE don't be with DUCKS. Many such people u will find to mislead, how u think and tackle issues is AN IMPORTANT ASPECT. BEST WISHES
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It is definitely hard for any young women who face situations like this. Its all your belief system and our brain react fast for negative thoughts rather than the positive. Have confidence and belief in things that you really wanted to happen. And stop believing in what the astrologist told you, if you still find it hard .
1.Take a paper and write down what's bothering you
2. Write down what's the logic and illogical reasons behind that make you think that way.
3. If it doesn't makes sense to you
Then whenever you get to think about that tell yourself that " I don't believe in that "
It will be easy if you get help from counseling Psychologist . Its okay to get help for your betterment.
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Astrologer are not god
And if thry predicted so accurelty we could prevent any mishappening right ? So dont believe on this
Consult me for any clarification plz
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Ms. Rhythm Makkar
Psychologist
3 yrs exp
Ghaziabad
Firstly, thank you for your question. Reaching out is the first step towards taking control of the situation and feeling better. There’s a lot of societal pressure and prejudice involved regarding getting married in our country, and doing so “timely”. It helps to remind yourself that each and everyone has their own timeline in life. There’s no guarantee that one who marries early has a better married life than one who does to later on. There are a lot of other factors involved, and it’s an important decision to make which requires careful consideration and time :) I can only imagine how frustrated you must be feeling, and all your emotions are valid.
Consulting a counselling psychologist and talking to someone about your feelings might help you navigate through the distress :)
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Ms. Bhavani Kaushal
Clinical Psychologist
5 yrs exp
Delhi
U need to understand the reliability of the Future telling sources. Are these sources 100% accurate.
Hope u got ur ans.
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Dr. Rupali Mohbe (PhD)
Psychologist
26 yrs exp
Ahmedabad
Hi. I appreciate you talking about your concern.
As per given information, first thing first, you're always having the choice for an event or any circumstances. So choosing a boy you're always gonna have a choice to get married and with whom you want to get married, at the end it is going to be your decision well informed decision not the astrologer's.
It's okay, there's no need to feel like this. You said you're independent and educated then this shall not affect you much.
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Join a hobby class so that you can meet like minded people
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
As an educated and independent woman, be bold and confident about yourself..
Give the responsibility to your parents, they will never push you into a well kind of family..
For more clarity and motivation, you can consult a psychological Counselor..
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Ms. Simran Dugar
Mental Health Counselor
4 yrs exp
Kolkata
I am sorry to hear that you're feeling this way after consulting an astrologer. It's important to remember that while astrological predictions may offer insights, they are not definitive outcomes. Even if the astrologer's prediction were to come true, understand that relationships require continuous effort and understanding to thrive.
Building a fulfilling life involves focusing on your well-being, self-esteem, and making choices aligned with your values. Rather than pre-judging based on an astrologer's forecast, it's important to approach relationships with an open mind, striving to understand the person you may be involved with. Avoiding judgment for past experiences is crucial, as it allows for healthier communication and connection.
If you still find it difficult to work through these emotions and uncertainties, seeking short-term therapy can help. Mind Sculpt, my company, offers online therapy sessions that provide a supportive space to explore your feelings, gain clarity, and develop coping strategies.
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Ms. Sakshi Tyagi
Clinical Psychologist
6 yrs exp
Delhi
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The excessively negative thoughts you are experiencing right now may seem like the exact thing that will happen to you in future and it can feel really disheartening and bleak. But in these times, I really encourage you to know that free-will or karma can change fate, if that's something you believe in so strongly. With inner strength and self-work, you can become stronger emotionally and either make new life choices or handle the life events better than your past version.
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I'd strongly encourage you to consult a clinical psychologist and develop inner strength and get into a more positive state of mind that will together support you to be more intentional with your life.
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