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Decreased sexual drive
I am a husband. Whenever I feel the desire for sex, my wife usually refuses. Most of the time she says no. When I touch her or show affection, she doesn’t get aroused, or even if she does, it’s very little, which feels unnatural. She is not interested in having sex. And when we do have sex, I ejaculate very quickly, and she doesn’t enjoy it. Because of that, she seems uninterested and just goes through it without real interest.
Another issue is that she has irregular periods. Her menstrual cycle is not consistent and does not occur on time.
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From the wife’s side, possible causes may include PCOD, stress, anxiety, thyroid disorders, high prolactin levels, vaginal dryness, or pain during intercourse.
From the husband’s side, possible causes include performance anxiety, overthinking, low confidence, hormonal imbalance, or Vitamin D and B12 deficiency.
You should consult a doctor or visit Dr. Monga Clinic for proper evaluation, investigations, and treatment.
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Low sexual interest can be due to stress lack of proper for Play or emotional factors. Your early Jacque Kalyan may also reduce her satisfaction, leading to less interest. Irregular periods could be related to hormonal issue. Focus on communication, better for Play and reducing pressure and consider consulting a doctor for both concerns.On 9 8 2 3 0 8 6 7 6 0
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Its common problem ,you shoukd learn the art from experts .please consult. Solution is possible.
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To provide you with the most accurate prescription and ensure your satisfaction, I need to understand your history better. Please book a session so we can discuss this in detail and get you on the right track
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Treatment is available
Consult online for proper evaluation and treatment
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Hi, consult online for treatment
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First u need to fix ur premature ejaculation problem...
Take herbal supplements..
To increase discharge time..
To enjoy sexual activity and satisfy your partner..
So that she also feel good and have desire too..
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consult for prescription and guidance
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From a clinical perspective, your wife’s low libido and lack of arousal may not be “unnatural”—it is often a response to underlying factors such as hormonal imbalance, stress, relationship dynamics, or dissatisfaction during intercourse. Since she is also experiencing irregular periods, there may be a hormonal component involved (like thyroid imbalance or conditions such as Polycystic Ovary Syndrome), which can directly reduce sexual desire.
At the same time, your concern about early ejaculation is valid. When intercourse ends quickly, the partner may not reach satisfaction, which gradually reduces her interest and creates a cycle of avoidance.
Also, emotional connection plays a major role in female arousal. Unlike men, women often require mental comfort, trust, and gradual stimulation to feel desire.
Next Steps
First, avoid forcing or repeatedly initiating sex when she is not ready. Instead, open a calm, non-judgmental conversation with her. Ask about her comfort, stress levels, and whether she experiences pain, dryness, or lack of interest.
Encourage her to get a basic hormonal evaluation (thyroid profile, reproductive hormones, ultrasound if needed) to identify causes of irregular periods. Addressing this alone can improve libido.
For your part, work on controlling early ejaculation through:
* Practicing pause–start techniques
* Increasing foreplay duration (focus on her pleasure before penetration)
* Reducing performance pressure
If needed, both of you can consult us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5 , where you will get personalised treatment and sexual health expert counselling for a combined approach.
This is not just a “sexual problem”—it is a couple’s health and communication issue combined with possible hormonal imbalance. If handled with patience, understanding, and proper treatment, it is very much manageable and reversible.
Health Tips
Maintain a balanced lifestyle for both of you:
* Ensure proper sleep and reduce stress (mental stress directly reduces libido in females)
* Include nourishing foods like milk, ghee, almonds, dates—these support Shukra dhatu (reproductive health)
* Avoid excessive junk food and irregular routines, which can worsen hormonal imbalance
* Gentle exercise or yoga helps regulate cycles and improves mood
For your wife, herbs like Shatavari and Ashoka are traditionally used in Ayurveda to support menstrual health and female vitality—but they should be taken under guidance.
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Dr. Yashwant Singh
Sexologist
32 yrs exp
Ghaziabad
Both of you need to visit to evaluate the condition and one of the main reasons on other partner losses interest in intercourse is pre mature ejaculation . You need to be examined . In the mean time do foreplay to increase the interest in sex
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Dr. Om Prakash L
Sexologist
8 yrs exp
Adilabad
Take consultation
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