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Sexual thaughts for my wife
Hello sir we married 2 yrs ago we have 1 kid but since my marriage day after month I observe my wife need sex as I think she was day by day becoz she wants to touch me regular my private part while sleep she disturb always to me I informed so many times shouted not to involve this type of mindset but she telling her hands by default going to touch my penis . But anyways she need romance much as i observe than she become happy with me with smile if I shouting anything she will nervous what can we do
And sometimes she will ask me for kissing to my private part i said no so many times but till now i said ok for thrice
She will kiss little
Becoz i thought if I not permit her this situation divert to wrongs stages i thaught that's what I said her ok
. But kissing to private part as i think it's wrong pl advice what to do
We do sex once in 15 days with ipill tablet and before her periods 2 days before we do without ipill
So anyways we do thrice in a month
her age 27 my age 34
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Hi, sexual urges can be different in different people. There's nothing wrong in having sexual urges unless they are excessive and causing distress. Consult online for counseling
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What you are describing relates to differences in sexual desire and intimacy needs between partners, which is quite common in married life. Your wifeâs behavior suggests a higher emotional and physical intimacy need, which she expresses through touch, closeness, and affectionâeven during sleep. This is not a disease or abnormality, but rather a variation in libido and attachment style. At the same time, your discomfort with certain acts, including touching during sleep or oral contact with private parts, is equally valid. In a healthy relationship, both partnersâ boundaries and comfort levels must be respected. Any intimate activity should always be mutual and consensual, not out of fear or pressure.
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The most important step is calm and respectful communication. Instead of shouting or reacting strongly, try to explain your feelings clearly to your wifeâwhat you are comfortable with and what you are not. At the same time, listen to her emotional needs, as her behavior may be her way of seeking closeness, reassurance, or affection. You both may benefit from finding a middle ground where intimacy is expressed in ways that are comfortable for both of you. Setting gentle boundariesâespecially regarding actions during sleepâis important. If this situation continues to create stress or misunderstanding, guided counseling can help both partners understand each other better. For professional and confidential guidance tailored to your relationship, you are encouraged to connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5, where we can support you with a balanced and respectful approach.
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Focus on building emotional intimacy alongside physical intimacyâsimple gestures like spending quality time, talking openly, and showing affection can strengthen your bond. Maintain a respectful attitude toward each otherâs preferences and avoid labeling any act as âright or wrongâ; instead, consider whether it is mutually acceptable or not. A calm, understanding approach reduces anxiety and improves relationship satisfaction. Healthy relationships are built on communication, consent, and mutual comfort, which are more important than the frequency or type of physical activity. Thank you
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It's a need...
U both need proper counselling..
To enjoy happy married life
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Detailed history is required for diagnosis and treatment can consult
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Consult a psychologist
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