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Broken and suicidal thoughts
My parents and grandparents have separated me from my fiancee. I love him alot. They don't understand that he's a genuine person. They abuse Me and doesn't treat me well..I also was rescued to woman's cell bcz of my fiancee. To which they consider insult as police van arrived to our home. To take me for protection centre. As they beaten and bruised me alot..for talking to him..as we were going to do love marriage in future. And then they even filed case until psi to dsp on him without reason.. just by giving fake cause that he's harressing me. Even when he's good to me. They still torcher me alot at home. I really don't want to stay in such family. As I'm restricted to not even go outside to college and they've really tried killing us both.He told me to go to dgp or woman's centre but I don't know how to protect myself and leave these people due to studies. We want to stay together soon away from these people. But don't know how to take action to survive in crisis.😢
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Understand your priorities first and work things one at a time. If you take too much things at a time it might be overwhelming. I would suggest you to work with a Counseling Psychologist to understand your priorities better and get help to work on that.
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write down your current goals
priorities them
finish them one by one
If you feel confused please redo that again untill you get clarity
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You need counseling sessions to improve your perception and decision making skills.
You need an expert Psychologist.
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you can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance
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Hi,
To be emotionally independent, Not getting affected by their behavior & excel in studies you can take therapy. It will help you to grow financially & explore different options of life.
Take care
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visit for more details : https://manpravah.com/
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Connect with psychologist to resolve inner conflicts
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consult
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connect
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Please consult a psychologist.
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visit https://kaleidoscope.in/ for booking an appointment
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Kindly take Psychological help first and for that consult a Clinical Psychologist.
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It seems that you are dependent on your Parents for all your needs. I need to know your problem in depth to provide you with a better solution, you should book an online appointment with me so we can both together find a solution for your problem.
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Hi,Being independent is very important for you.You need to focus on studies for now.Once you get a job things will change.
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First you study and become financially independent put other things on hold
Consult to discuss
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Ms. Simran Dugar
Mental Health Counselor
4 yrs exp
Kolkata
I'm truly sorry to hear about the difficult situation you're facing. It's important to approach these challenges with both immediate and long-term considerations. Taking impulsive actions, driven by emotional distress, might have unforeseen consequences. I encourage you to prioritize your safety and well-being.
Consider reaching out to local support services, legal aid, or women's shelters for immediate assistance. Simultaneously, planning for the future, including financial stability and exploring available options, is crucial. Therapy can provide a safe space to process emotions, explore solutions, and make informed decisions.
Remember, you have the right to access protection and create a life free from harm. Taking things one step at a time, seeking professional guidance, and building a support network can help you navigate this challenging journey.
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Dr. Pooja Sharma (PhD)
Clinical Psychologist
24 yrs exp
Ahmedabad
Hi, from reading your story it's evident you are going through a challenging situation and are unable to think of a solution to this. You are in distress and taking professional advice is very important.
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please talk to people whom you trust ...not only those who would agree with you but also who can help you see the situation more objectively.
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There is always a solution to every problem.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Complete your studies..
Later, if you both are going strong in your relationship even after that, you have all the right to marry him..
My suggestion is first take care of your own future by having a reliable source of income..
For which, it is better to focus on Academics first..
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Pooja Gupta
Psychologist
2 yrs exp
Kolkata
Hi. To be able to avoid the harassment of your parents, your only option is to be financially independent and secure enough to move out of your parents home and take decisions for yourself. Life can always throw such situations at a person, the only thing that will stay with you and help you move forward is your financial stability. If you are still dependent, there is not much you can do but abide by their rules (which should not be the case as you are an adult and fully capable of taking your decisions) but this is to keep your peace and avoid such violence at home. Focus to work and move out of this situation.
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Counselling can help gain some guidance on how to go about further. I am happy to help you.
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