Borderline Personality Disorder.

Hi. I'm studying in Germany and have been in touch with a friend of mine from India.  Recently she was acting extremely strangely and our friendship got toxic and disturbing. I went to a therapist here and shared her behaviours and they concluded its a highly likely to be Borderline Personality Disorder. Some of the symptoms diagnosed by the therapist and which I have observed too are 1. Irrational fear that someday I would suddenly stop being her friend and go away. 2. Praising me to the sky for helping her and getting emotionalIy abusive and manipulative when I'm busy. I couldn't understand it at the beginning and nearly blocked her. 3. Multiple attempts at suicide and enjoys cutting herself. Are there any female therapist in Bangalore experienced in dealing with BPD and dialectical behavioural therapy? (preferably Bangalore South, but anywhere is still okay). It has to be a female therapist as she has experienced sexual abuse and distrusts men.Thanks.