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Black mail of death
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My brother has developed relation with one of her junior girl as Brother Sister relationship now he's so much dependent on her.
Now girl's parents are looking for her marriage, now my brother is blackmailing me to marry her otherwise he will lose life
He already attempted suicide earlier but thankfully saved him.
We have shown h to Psychiatrist and done counseling for 3 months with tablets also
Now me and my family don't know what to react.
Please help 🙏🙏 it's very serious situation.
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Hi ! It seems your brother needs a shoulder to lean over and maybe this girl is his hope to express his feelings. Incase you and your family can substitute her by emphatetic listening and giving assurance things may change .
He needs to have a positive goal to look forward.
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Try to spend more quality time with him.
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Consult a counselor to work out suicidal ideation.
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Hi, I am sorry you are feeling this way. I am sure this a lot of trouble that you’re going through as an elder brother. From what you’ve shared here it doesn’t look to me that your brother will do anything that you’d suggest. He isn’t able to form trust right now and doesn’t feel like he will be supported or understood by any of his family members. I am not sure he will follow through with the suggestion of going to a psychologist or a counsellor or any suggestion given by you guys. In fact, he might feel worst with that and might go into extremes. How about you build some trust with him over a period of time by validating his feelings and really listening to him. Once he starts feeling safe you can suggest him to be in therapy. If you push him or force him to do anything, he might go into extremes. You’re brave. You’ll find a way. ⭐️
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Book a session with me to understand how you can help your brother. Love and healing ❤️
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Hi,
It could be a sign of Developmental Delay or emotionally stuck in one phase.
This irrational thinking could be removed from hypnotherapy and counselling. Hypnoanalysis will help to uncover the layers of this emotional attachments of subconscious mind.
Seek help as soon as you can.
Thank you and Take care.
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communicates that you’re open to speaking about suicide in a non-judgmental and supportive way. Asking in this direct, unbiased manner, can open the door for effective dialogue about their emotional pain and Make sure you take their answers seriously and not to ignore them, especially if they indicate they are experiencing thoughts of suicide. Listening to their reasons for being in such emotional pain, as well as listening for any potential reasons they want to continue to stay alive, are both incredibly important when they are telling you what’s going on. Help them focus on their reasons for living and avoid trying to impose your reasons for them to stay alive.
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Hi, Since your brother is already taking medicines and continues to have symptoms you have to consult a psychiatrist and review the medications.
Since he is having suiside thoughts do it immediately.
These treatments are life long .
Make sure that he is taking medicines regularly.
Consult a psychologist
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Consult a psychologist for counseling sessions. The number of sessions depends on the severity of disorder, clients insight , ready to change.
CBT,
Inter personal and social rhythm therapy
Family therapy etc will help him
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Have patience with him.Give him full support and love.
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Ms. Mohana Priya G
Psychologist
9 yrs exp
Bangalore
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Dr. Seema Aggarwal (PhD)
Counselling Psychologist
12 yrs exp
Bangalore
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I understand you are in dilemma.
You need to differentiate between Rational demands and irrational demands. I suggest you consult Psychologist to have rational perspective to the present problem.
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Consult a Psychologist
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Give importance to yourself.
Mental health matters.
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Ms. Manasi Tambe
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2 yrs exp
Pune
Please consult a psychologist on practo.
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... I hope you are able to make out that his demands are unreasonable and that is not how the world works. I am sure he was suffering suicidal tendency from even before coming in contact with this girl. This kind of mindset is developed out of a poor psycho-emotional development during early years and lack of developmental/emotional guidance by parental figures and a poor social/peer group engagement. It is hard to initiate change in this kind of situation but with 1-2 years of psychotherapy with weekly sessions, he can be brought back to healthy life functioning with a more mature psycho-emotional personality.
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Consult a Psychologist.
CBT along with Lifestyle Changes and Interpersonal Guidance and Counselling is required.
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