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Does ocd caused by moral injury and insult from a girl that I have been from 2 years go away and can someone tell a jobless person how to make friends and how do I get a job no one seems to even call for an interview
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Being hurt by someone you cared about, feeling insulted or morally wounded, struggling to find work, and watching opportunities pass without even getting interview calls those things don’t just add stress. They hit a person’s dignity, hope, and sense of worth. Anyone in that position would feel shaken.
The hopeful truth: OCD is treatable. Very treatable. Many people improve dramatically with the right help.
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Start with low pressure environments: gyms, walking groups, volunteering, language classes, community lectures, gardening groups places where showing up regularly matters more than being impressive.
– Go consistently. Familiarity builds comfort faster than brilliance.
– Keep conversations simple: ask about the activity, their routine, their interests. You don’t need to share your whole life story right away.
– If you feel ashamed about not working, prepare a neutral line: “I’m between roles right now and actively applying.” That’s honest and dignified.
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Healing usually comes from three directions at once:
1.Professional mental-health care (psychologist + possibly psychiatrist).
2.Gentle rebuilding of social contact.
3.Structured, practical job-search support.
Even one of these improving can lift the others.
You don’t need to solve everything at once. Pick the smallest next step: booking one mental-health appointment, asking one person to review your CV, attending one community activity this week.
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Hi ,
I understand you’re carrying a lot of emotional pain from past experiences and stress around your career and social life.
First, to address your concern about OCD: OCD is usually a combination of biological, psychological, and environmental factors.
Along with with proper support therapy (like CBT or ERP), mindfulness, under a psychologist/ psychiatrist’s guidance OCD symptoms can improve significantly, even if the triggers were emotional or relational.
Regarding social connections and friendships, start small: engage in activities or groups that interest you, online or offline, volunteer, or take up short courses or hobbies where you can meet like-minded people. Building friendships takes patience, focus on shared interests rather than forcing connections.
For employment, begin by reviewing your resume and application approach. Tailor applications to each role, reach out proactively to recruiters or networking contacts, and consider internships, volunteering, or short-term freelance work to build experience and credibility. Sometimes it’s about visibility and persistence, not lack of ability.
Pairing job search strategies with support for your mental health will help you feel more confident and resilient.
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Take small, consistent steps to manage stress , practice coping strategies and use deep breathing to calm your mind: inhale slowly, hold briefly, exhale gently, and repeat.
Prioritize your wellbeing, set realistic goals, and stay persistent.
Each small effort builds confidence, reduces anxiety, and helps you take control of your social, professional, and emotional life.
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Hi,OCD,can be triggered by stress and PTSD.Consut a psychologist
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Consultation with me is advised to address OCD related distress, process moral injury, and receive guidance on social skills building and vocational support.
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OCD can sometimes be influenced by emotional distress, such as moral injury or hurt caused by someone, but it doesnât necessarily have to be permanent and can improve with proper treatment like therapy and support. Healing from emotional pain and managing OCD symptoms takes time, patience, and professional help, so consider reaching out to a mental health expert who can guide you through effective strategies. Regarding making friends and finding a job, start by engaging in activities that interest you, joining online communities or local groups, and practicing social interactions gradually to build confidence. For job searching, update your resume, apply widely, and consider learning new skills or certifications that increase your chances. Networking with friends, family, or acquaintances can also open doors. Donât lose hopeâpersistence and small steps forward can lead to progress. Stay positive and seek support when needed.
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Yes OCD is quite curable but only if one is consistent with treatment. It can include both psychotherapy and medicines if symptoms are severe. And both must be followed with sincere regularity.
Reg job. No one can answer the question of why ur not getting interview calls. But surely a jobless man can have friends.
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Consult a licensed clinical psychologist.
Keep looking for more and more jobs and apply.
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Have faith. Hardwork always pays
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There are so many questions running in your mind currently and we need to analyze and understand the issue more deeply .As a psychologist I would recommend not to self diagnose and decide any condition like OCD,you need to connect a mental health professional to diagnose and guide you.
Also one should not be dependent on job for friends , We can connect like minded people and slowly create a circle but we should never force ourselves to fit in to have friends.Being emotionally independent and sufficient is important behaviour to learn here.
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I think you are going through a lot of psychological issues. It needs to be addressed asap otherwise it may get complicated.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine effectively and without any side effects.
It needs to be treated in a holistic approach for complete recovery.
You need an expert psychologist who is a good homeopathic physician.
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I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.
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