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Hello doctor actually iam talking on behalf of my wife ..she is 26 years .iam more fare in colour but my wife was little fare..now she stated saying i not like this childs colour not in her dad's colour can't accept this child.she is saying iam getting depressed not able accept this childs clour iam trying to explain her colors is not in our hand but should accept the child how she is as a father i love my child so much ...as a mother u should also love her but after saying all finally again she says same thing she is saying i will take care of child but i don't like .saying i should not marry a guy who is in white colour all in society says girl like her mother not like her father ..she is behaving wiredly .how can I male her normal and maker her accept the baby ..pleases say is eating my brain crying every day saying iam not liking this life ..she only discuss this me not with any body ..what shlifl i do to make her normal.
What should she follow to stop this non sense
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Thanks for writing in your query I must say that it is really couragous of you to express your problem and the type of pressure you must have been in for the past months after the baby got delivered would be immense from the mother.
Firstly your wife definitely has some deep rooted issue with the colour and the stigma attached to it secondly the sudden drop in hormones of female after pregnancy and the Expectations attached with a baby have completely affected the mind set of your wife.
If you genuinely want a happy wife and a happy home then definitely book at least one session with me as a couple both husband and wife if you feel comfortable during that session we can move ahead to work through so yeah
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You both need couple counseling asap otherwise you will ruin kid's life.
It can be well treated with counseling sessions and homeopathic medicine if required.
Seek help asap.
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Hi
It seems like your wife could be going through something. She can consult a psychologist. It seems like she could be going through a phase. What she is going through could be due to change in hormone levels post delivery. After delivery there is a drastic reduction in levels of progesterone and estrogen. The drastic reduction in these hormones results in anxiety and mood swings.
Don’t worry it seems like your wife could be going through a phase. With counselling sessions it is possible for her to feel better and indulge in positive thinking.
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Contact me for counselling session. Along with counselling I can suggest natural foods to calm the mind.
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Needs counselling
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connect with a psychologist
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Hi, Talk to your wife about consulting a psychologist.
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Hello.
I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you. It does sound very hurtful.
I would highly recommend your spouse consults a psychologist.
Do take care.
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She needs counseling
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Mr. Gunjan Maithil
Psychologist
13 yrs exp
Bangalore
Hi... She is most probably suffering from Postpartum depression. Some mother's (under postpartum depression) tend to develop negative attitudes towards their babies during their pregnancy or post delivery as well. It is normal but it requires professional help. Please consult a Psychiatrist and a Psychologist. Treatment may involve medications and/or psychotherapy.
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Consult a Psychiatrist and a Psychologist.
CBT along with Lifestyle Changes and Interpersonal Guidance & Counselling is required.
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Ms. Hema Sampath
Counselling Psychologist
18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Connect her with a professional with whom she can share and discuss her opinions and feelings..
Fix an appointment for her with a psychological Counselor for her to get a Clarity and acceptance..
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I can understand the situation you are facing , as well as the thinking of your wife too , may be she has faced any issue due to skin Color in her childhood, if not than it can be the reason , if she is a new mom this can be due to post partum depression/ mood disorders too which can go within 3-6 months , it can be due to imbalance of thyroid hormone during pregnancy, if this issue is becoming huge problem and she is not able to concentrate on any other thing , you can take counselling from a professional.
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Try to give her more love and accept her emotions too
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If personal life is affecting , consult with the psychologist
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Ms. Smriti
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18 yrs exp
Bangalore
Inner conflicts needs to be resolved.connect for counseling
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