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Struggling with 6-Month-Old Sleep
My baby turns 6 months next week and we are stuck in a cycle of contact sleeping. Until 3 months, he slept independently in his cot. Now, he only sleeps while being held or hugged. ​If we transfer him to his bed, he wakes instantly or lasts 30–60 minutes max. If held, he naps for 2 hours. His max total sleep is 12–13 hours with the help of contact naps or sleeping and last week it hit 8–10 hours when we tried forcing the bed. He is a very light sleeper, and we are now unable to do anything else during the day or night. How can we transition him back to his own surface without him losing sleep? We are exhausted and need a sustainable plan. He didn't have any sleeping schedule currently. Till feb he had a schedule with 2-3 nights waking for feed but he used to get back to sleep. But now sometimes he gets up and stays awake for 2-3 hours.
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Since he is used to being held, a cold-turkey transition is often the most disruptive. Instead, try reducing the level of contact in stages: ​Stage 1: Soothe him to sleep while holding him, but sit on the edge of his bed or right next to the cot. ​Stage 2: Place him in the cot while he is drowsy but still awake. Keep your hand firmly on his chest or back so he still feels your "contact." ​Stage 3: Gradually reduce the pressure of your hand over several nights, eventually just resting it there, then moving it away once he settles.
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1. Put drowsy but awake baby down to sleep in the cot. Repeat for 5-7 days. If they cry while placing in cot, pick up, soothe and put him down again. 2. Parent sits in chair next to cot. Gradually reduce interaction over few days. Move chair further away after 2-3 days. 3. At 6 months, baby's wake window should be 2-3 hours. So try to make him sleep every 2-3 hours. Overtired baby causes more trouble. Also at this stage, babies usually start facing separation anxiety. They will get better once age increases
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