Shighra patan. My self and even my wife!

shighra patan or premature ejaculation is NOT a disease but its a body's quick response to intense stimulation. This can happen if there is prolonged interval between sex, or if the person gets excited too soon, or lacks ejaculatory control. To master this control of ejaculation you must do some exercises and learn some techniques which cannot be mastered very easily. Please visit a sexologist to gain know how of these techniques. As far as satisfaction is concerned, You may feel happy if your sex lasts for a few more minutes, but what you are achieving is also good. Pleasure is always a moment. Its not a constant thing. when one has food the pleasure is in the taste of the first morsel and the last morsel. It gives the intense feel of goodness. It cannot last longer. Same for sex, the most intense pleasure is at penetration and ejaculation. So if you are ejaculating the pleasure is there, you are unnecessarily trying to neglect this pleasure and go after prolonging sex time, which may or may not happen. As far as female are concerned, their pleasure comes from orgasm. The anatomy of the female is such that the penis hardly comes in contact with the clitoris. The clitoris is the main organ of pleasure in female and massaging it can bring about arousal and then orgasm may occur. Many females are unaware of clitoris or orgasm too. You can stimulate her clitoris to make her feel pleasure. Prolonging sex time for increased penis in vagina thrusting doesn't give pleasure as it doesn't stimulate the clitoris