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Marriage issues and anxiety
I am 29 years old. He is 30 years old.
We both are IT professionals. We got married in Dec 2019
We fight a lot. And then he starts keeping silence and then that silence makes me feel worst. I start feeling heavy inside my heart. I expect him to discuss and resolve the problem but
Then again we start fighting. This goes on.
Sometimes his anger is uncomfortable. And he start behave like child. I also feel so angry. And helpless
I feel like he don't listen to me. He never has solution on any problem. He never disscuss on problem. He never apologies.
Then on next day we start our day normally. But then for me , I cnt really forget whatever happened and the way he reacted while fighting. Somewhere inside me I feel like we are not made for each other. Then I feel like I won't be able to servive without him. Then I feel like if we ll get seperated, again my dad will ask for another marriage.
Whenever I ask him for counseling program. He rejects.
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Try to understand each other.
Do meditation both of you
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Fights are part and parcel of every relationship. Did u not have fight or difference of opinion with your parents or colleagues or siblings? Always remember, fights are not end of relationship but the start of knowing and understanding each other.
Secondly, only difference in the fights with other individuals was either a strong base of your relationship or a totally not needed kind of attitude... which helped you overcome your anger and stay calm.
Now this being an important relationship, you both will have to except each other alongwith the differences that u have... please sit together and talk.... else write it to each other... explain your point of view...
If nothing is working out take counseling session so that someone can help n guide u both.
Giving up or walking out of the relationship will not solve anything
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Counselling is much needed in this case
Otherwise need to be strong
grow with take it easy policy
If it doesn't stop it may leads to deformities
And will create problems in both life's.
If one is not understand the other person should understand the situation and need to be cool and calm.
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Don't just engage your selfs in fighting
try to build strong relationship with love and there should be care for eachother.
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with baby boy or baby girl there will be brain 🧠 issue with the baby delayed milstone or Cerebral palsy I pray that almighty brings health and happiness in your life's
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counselling for both of you needed. You too need to co operate and avoid situation getting worsed.
think positive and stay calm.
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Counseling is required and if not then make yourselves too strong to avoid situations whom u can't face, and wait till condition gets normal. Live for each other not for urself, that's married life. Have patience n love, with time every problem will be resolved
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You both should start counselling session immediately..a detailed assessment required...
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Mr. Nitin Kumar Arora (PT)
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8 yrs exp
Delhi
You should better spend time together and simultaneously consult a psychotherapist to get the problems sorted.
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