I dont feel sexual. Please help.

Pleasure is personal. One can get it by singing, other can get it by playing a game or by doing some action. Sex is one entity where the right things have to be stimulated by the partner to feel the pleasure. BUT sexual feelings are there in every human being. These cause one to have a liking for things which can give pleasure, like a touch of skin, or embracing or similar activities which are called foreplay. One may not like the activity, but if these actions send pleasure signals to the brain, one can start liking the act, because internally one feels pleasure.

You have to do some self exploration. When you are alone and can indulge in some personal activity, try to touch various parts of the body and feel the sensation it creates. If it is pleasurable when you touch some parts, you can ask your partner to do the same. While having sex, the frame of mind of the persons indulging in it is very important. If you have vaginal dryness it could be due to fear or lack or arousal. This means you want to have sex, the desire is there but the body is not yet stimulated. So ask your partner to spend adequate time to stimulate you to make you aroused. This will cause more lubrication to be released and the dryness will vanish. This is done by many ways especially by stimulating parts of body which when touched give you pleasure.

The clitoris is one organ of the female which is made purely for pleasure. It is situated right at upper end of your private parts. Stimulating of this part rarely happens at sex. But you can try to stimulate it yourself by massaging it using lubricating gels and experience the sensations that come. If you are happy with these sensations, you can instruct your partner to spend some time to do the similar action before entering .