I am in need of psychiartist consultatio

I got married recently after 9 yrs of successfulll love relationship. I am girl with thoughts girls are not less than boys. I am working women who became strong and independent. I never involved in my husband money matters, savings or anything evenwhen we were in relationship or after marriage. But now he started talking about my money. I planned to take LIC & FD on the name of my 8 yr old niece who doesnt have proper family suport & I fell responsible as I am the only child of my parents out of 3 childs well settled. But he is interfering in my decisions. Could anyone help me out bcz i really wanted to talk to a 3rd person who doesnt know me or him personally bcz i dont want to make my welwishers or frnds, family think bad about him