Gay guy in straight marriage.

Are u attracted to males contact a psychologist

You need an expert Psychologist who is a good Sexologist.

I have been working as a Homeopathic Psychiatrist, sexologist and Counseling psychologist for the last 17 years of experience. You can contact me through an online appointment for further assistance.

What you’re experiencing is not uncommon. Many men discover or accept their sexual orientation only after marriage, and it creates a very real emotional and sexual conflict. The first thing you need to understand clearly is this: 1. Your sexual orientation is not a disorder Not feeling attraction toward women does not mean anything is wrong with your body or hormones. This is a psychological–sexual orientation issue, not a medical defect. But you are in a situation where you must maintain a marriage and want a child that is completely understandable, and you’re not alone in this struggle. 2. For now, stop blaming yourself, your problem is practical, not moral The real challenge here is: How to function sexually with your wife How to reduce performance anxiety How to maintain marital harmony How to achieve pregnancy without putting pressure on yourself or her These are solvable with the correct approach. 3. What works in such cases There are 3 parallel paths that help you manage this life situation without forcing yourself unnaturally: A. Performance support (medical + behavioural) Many men in mixed-orientation marriages need structured help to perform sexually without attraction. This includes: Reducing anxiety & overthinking Controlled stimulation techniques Temporary use of medications to support erection and delay climax Guided sexual strategies that reduce pressure on you during intercourse B. Psychological support This helps you: Reduce guilt Manage stress Make intimacy functional without forcing attraction Understand boundaries and communication with your partner C. Fertility planning If your primary aim is to have a child, we can plan: Timed intercourse Supportive medications Or even assisted options if needed This reduces the pressure on your sexual performance. 4. You do NOT have to disclose everything to your spouse immediately Many men worry that their marriage will collapse if they say anything. You first need professional guidance on how to handle emotions, intimacy, and fertility before taking any drastic steps. Your situation needs personalised, private, confidential support, not generic advice. If you want a private one-on-one plan I can help you with: Sexual performance support Anxiety reduction Step-by-step functioning plan Guidance on achieving pregnancy Confidential mental & emotional support You can reach me privately on nine three two six zero two zero five three six on WhatsApp for a confidential consultation.

Don't panic sir.. Few medicine can help u.. To enjoy happy married life completely and satisfy your wife .

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Hi... Consult online for discussion regarding the same. Alternatively you can search Dr. Shailaja Bandla , Psychiatrist on Google for contact info

Don’t spoil a woman life .. discuss with ur wife and move on.. child is not the solution to marriage

Consult a psychologist

Did you think of this before marriage ? How did you convince yourself to get married ? Asking this because at some point you thought this was possible. Hence don't lose hope - sexuality is fluid - can be trained and rewired to develop more acceptance of the situation and learning how to process the sexual signals with practice and other therapies. This needs working with a professional with proper guidance and understanding. Not a quick fix . The idea is not to change your orientation or preference rather getting the right signals to co-ordinate . Not just pills - but process.