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Dont feel sex desireness
While touching ...while even come in contact too...i dont feel excitement or any desireness to go ahead at bed...i have become irritated
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Desire for anything comes when it's kindled. You are 38 and may be having hormonal imbalance wherein low estrogen can reduce the desire. Desire can also be stimulated by daily thinking about sex, fantasy and thus experiencing the pleasurable sensations which it produces. Desire doesn't come at switch of a button. it is to be either spontaneous or at times going with the flow with your partners advances can cause arousal and thus kindle desire. So see what suits you.
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If you feel tired, irritable, are fighting a lot nowadays with your family members, or are feeling low, and depressed, it could be sign of hormonal imbalance, and this may need the attention of a gynecologist . Meet them if required.
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One has to find pleasure in what one does. Vaginal sex rarely causes a woman to orgasm as many a times the clitoral stimulation just doesnt happen. Clitoris is a organ made specially for pleasure. It has no other purpose. Stimulation of the clitoris can give you pleasure. and this may be done by your partner or by you to get this sensations. Sex is a basic hunger. So dont deny yourself the pleasure. if you dont feel like having it. you can try masturbating and try to feel the pleasure. if it makes you happy you can go ahead with sex making your partner do what pleases you.
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