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I am married and my age is 30. I have a 3 year old kid(daughter). My wife has had irregular periods for the last 6 months to 1 year. It goes for nearly 15 days every month. Because of that she is feeling very tired all the time. She is not able to intimate with me, she tries a lot to get into the mood but does things for formality. Once per month has become a big thing these days. I am trying to divert my thoughts and also learning new skills. Still I am feeling deprived of intimacy. She is also seeing lots of doctors and trying to get herself treated but of no use so far. All of them are saying the same thing hormonal imbalance. I have conveyed my feelings with my wife as well. We are having frequent fights even over unnecessary things as well. What to do now from my side
Note: we both are working in IT
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Your situation reflects two parallel issuesâyour wifeâs ongoing gynecological concern (likely abnormal uterine bleeding related to Hormonal imbalance) and the resulting strain on your emotional and intimate relationship. Prolonged bleeding (up to 15 days/month) can lead to significant fatigue, low energy, irritability, and reduced libido. From a medical and psychological perspective, her reduced interest in intimacy is not unwillingness, but a consequence of physical exhaustion and hormonal disturbance. At the same time, your feeling of deprivation is also valid. The key here is to shift from a âperformance expectationâ mindset to a supportive partnership approach, where intimacy temporarily takes a broader meaningâemotional closeness, reassurance, and patienceâuntil her health stabilizes.
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From your side, focus on reducing pressure around intercourse and rebuilding connection in non-sexual waysâsimple time together, conversations, light affection, and emotional support. Acknowledge her effort rather than her limitations; this alone can reduce tension and fights significantly. Avoid repeated discussions about intimacy during stressful momentsâchoose calm, neutral times to communicate. Since both of you are working professionals, stress and fatigue are already high, so creating protected âcouple timeâ without expectations can help. For structured guidance on managing relationship stress, intimacy concerns, and supporting your wifeâs recovery holistically, you are encouraged to connect with us at 9 3 1 5 6 6 1 5 6 5 for professional and confidential counseling.
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Encourage a lifestyle that supports her recoveryâregular meals, proper sleep, and reduced work stress where possible. Emotional reassurance from your side can positively influence her hormonal balance over time. Avoid arguments over frequency of intimacy; instead, build emotional safety and trust. You may also take care of your own mental wellbeing through healthy outlets like exercise, skill-building, or mindfulness, so that frustration does not build up. With patience and mutual understanding, both her health and your relationship can gradually return to a more balanced and fulfilling state. Thank you
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U both need proper counselling..
To enjoy sexual activity..
To enjoy happy married life completely
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●𝗪𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗺𝘆 𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗺𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗳 1.5 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹 𝗴𝗲𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗺𝗮𝗻𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗶𝗲𝗳.
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●𝗬𝗼𝘂 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝘀𝘂𝗹𝘁 𝗺𝗲 𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗲 𝗪𝗮𝗿𝗺 𝗿𝗲𝗴𝗮𝗿𝗱𝘀.
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