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Can't have sex with me
We have been married 6 months ago.but didn't have sex till now. My husband can masturbate watching porn...but he does not get an erection while in bed with me. He doesn't have erection issue but the issue comes only with me. Not sure what the reason is ...we are very stressed of our situation, any help would be much appreciated. Thanks Kunika and Kunal
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You definitely need consultation please take it it on Practo
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Dear Kanika and Kunal, This is a serious concern and should be worked upon at the earliest. It seems you guys have not yet consummated your marriage. Let me explain you about your issue in brief - It seems you are getting Erection but it’s not hard enough for you to penetrate. Even if you penetrate you seem to lose your Erection. At some point in a man’s life, he may have difficulty achieving or maintaining an erection. Erection problems occur when you can’t achieve or maintain an erection that’s firm enough to have sexual intercourse. Erection problems are also known as: * erectile dysfunction (ED) * impotence * sexual dysfunction In your case I believe you have developed symptoms of Erectile dysfunction. However this issue is not a major problem to worry as there are medications and treatment available for the same. Rest assured your problem can be resolved.
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If you genuinely interested in getting your issue resolved then you can contact me either online or in person. Would be happy to help you. Website Link - https://www.drfayyazsexologyclinic.com
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I understood your concern  and noted the problem as well .I need to ask few more details to make a diagnosis and start treatment and advice which suits you. Pl consult me on Practo , so that I can help you better.book a time slot as per your convenience for consultation.
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To over come this problem issue consut Sexperts don't shy these kind of problems can't be resolved through messages details discussion required to find out reason get treated and enjoy sex life and future problems
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Do not panic.. U need proper counseling..
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for further information consult privately
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Your husband may have organic disease or performance Anxiety or both . Generally it is an organic disease . We can help and guide u both . Consult me directly or 93556 65 333
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Both of you consult a sexologist, need counselling in detail. I am sure with help of medication and counselling, things will get better. Need to be relaxed and positive attitude. Best wishes
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Hello, it's seems like he is facing side effects of excessive masturbation.. Masturbation is a natural phenomenon. All men do this but as a natural principle… excess of everything is always bad, so you must try to control it. Don't do it more than once or twice in a month. Don't worry you can do that... just do not watch porn… Try not to be remain alone, don't read or view sexual literature, books, whatsApp & porn videos etc. Avoid oily, more spicy, Chilly and junk foods. Do exercise daily for one hr or yoga mainly Pranayam… Meditation… vajroli Mudra... Ashwini mudra. Start reading religious books. Please note that now a days the main drawback and side effect of the masturbation is once you are addicted to masturbation mostly and always by watching porn… where you get different type of stories... relations... girls… body... and styles... etc. Once u got married u don't get all those things with wife so u don't get aroused and you don't get proper erection. Now a day's mostly patients comes to us with the complaint that they are not able to get erection with wife in the bed but they are getting erection in the bathroom while masturbation. This is creating a lot of problem in their married life so my advice is to control it. If u are not able to do so then you must consult your family doctor, many times it's not possible to control without the help of your doctor. You can take Chandra kala ras 1 tablet morning and night after food Yastimadhu chuma 3gms morning and night with water Sidhamakara dwaja 1 tablet morning and night after food. Do all the above suggested treatment for 3 months and see the results. If you don" get satisfactory results then you can also contact me on my private chat or directly in my clinic. We can send you the medicines by courier. My website www.kayakalpinternational.com
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There are many reasons behind this problem. It is called situational erectile dysfunction. It has psychological factors behind it which can be treated easily.
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Consult a psychiatrist who also deal in psychosexual issues.
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Take proper counselling about this first Chat online I have best tips n remedies for this
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