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I am a happily married woman of 38 years.I stay with my husband since marriage 3 years back.We are a very satisfied couple. However,for some reason,I still feel sexually attracted towards some men at my workplace and in our family friends.Infact,even some strangers who appeal me.They are younger and older to me by 10-15 years of age gap.I try to get another thoughts to resist my attraction but still I end up with hardened nipples or a lusty feeling making me regret my thoughts and urges.I also try not to think of them but I still end up fantasizing them in my washroom or when am alone.I dont know if this is normal but by morals and ethics am surely wrong.Will motherhoood and parenting in times to come change my thoughts? How do I get rid of all this and be only attracted to my husband? I am clueless.Kindly help.
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All is well in limits don't worry There are ways and means to over come this issue consut Sexperts don't shy these kind of problems can't be resolved through messages details discussion required to find out reason get treated and enjoy Sex Life and future problems
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As long as you are sincere and loveing and attached to your beloved husband. Not at all problem in fantasizing be happy in both ways
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Consult for guidance
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Dr. Tarun Arya
Sexologist
13 yrs exp
Jhansi
Sometime these thoughts are normal as per age factor they will perish as the time passes, try to divert your mind in such cases
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Dr. Gunjan Saini
Sexologist
14 yrs exp
Haridwar
Take proper counseling about this Chat online
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Dr. Kamal Kishore Verma
Psychiatrist
18 yrs exp
Agra
Madam these are kind of Obsessive Thoughts (Sexual content) and Compulsively you are doing acts & then have guilt 😔 feelings.
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Consult now for more information & if require treatment can be started.
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Dr. Rayees Ahmad Wani
Sexologist
16 yrs exp
Srinagar
Hello,
These thoughts are normal to some extent but one should be able to control them..... They will die down with time hopefully.... Consult for guidance.
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